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I
want to thank Concerned Citizens for America, and specifically Jan Klaas, for
inviting me here tonight. All authors
are delighted when asked to comment on their work, and are especially delighted
when others are prepared to buy into their argument. The Resolution being discussed tonight is adapted from a
considerably longer document entitled The Natural Family: A Manifesto. Paul Mero, formerly with The Howard Center
and now President of The Sutherland Institute, is my co-author. I have been asked to saw a few words about
the purposes of this document.
To
begin with, The Natural Family: A Manifesto seeks to present a concise,
coherent, and—we hope—compelling pro-family worldview and program of action. It is inspired by The Universal Declaration
of Human Rights, Article 16(3) of which proclaims that “The family is the
natural and fundamental group unit of society and is entitled to protection by
society and the state.”
The
Manifesto begins by telling “the story of the family” and then places our
current family crisis in historical context.
It offers our vision, a set of principles on which we build, and
a concrete cultural and political agenda.
It outlines our view of liberty, responds to anticipated accusations,
and explains our relationship to allied campaigns. In the end, we summon all people of goodwill to join a great
cause, the affirmation of the natural family for a new century and millennium.
Many
have asked, why a Manifesto? Well, this
format pushes writers toward a clarity of vision and an economy of words. It requires an articulation of principles
and an honesty towards historical circumstance. It discourages disheveled thought and half-truths. It demands a careful balance between the
universal and the specific.
Others
have asked: With what authority do we write?
At one level, we are simply two men who share a deep concern for our
children, our cities, our nation, and our civilization. We cannot claim the backing of any political
party nor do we speak as the leaders of large organizations. However, we do offer here our respective
backgrounds—one as historian and writer, the other as policy analyst and
activist—and our common work through the World Congress of Families as
credentials. We make no claim in this
Manifesto to having discovered something altogether new. We have learned from many friends and
colleagues, as well as from men and women of the past. We ride here on their shoulders, hoping only
that we have added to their work and legacy in some significant way.
Rather
than continuing in my own words, though, let me draw on the comments of others
about the Manifesto. One person
who fully understands what we attempted here is Professor Wilfred McClay, one
of America’s most distinguished scholars.
He is Professor of History and holds The Sun Trust Bank Chair of
Excellence in the Humanities at The University of Tennessee-Chattanooga. His books include The Masterless: Self and Society
in Modern America and The Students’ Guide to U.S. History. Regarding our Manifesto, he writes:
“That we are living through a period of unprecedented crisis in the very
structure of family life is by now a truism. But too much of what has been
written on the subject accentuates the negative, appealing more to our fears
than our hopes. Such an emphasis misses the deepest problem facing us. That
problem is not serial divorce, or gay marriage, or widespread elective
childlessness, or the general disregard for the lives of the very young and
very old. Those are only symptoms. The deepest problem is the loss of a
generally shared vision, firmly grounded in nature, of what the family is, and
why our destiny as individuals and as a society is inseparable from its proper
flourishing. None of the other things would be happening if our vision of the
family itself were not so confused and wavering.”
“This Manifesto
represents a welcome change from that tendency. It does not flinch from
addressing itself to issues of the day. But it does so in a much larger and
longer context, seeking always to answer such developments with a positive
vision of what family life is, and is meant to be. That vision is not a mutable
cultural ideal or a Victorian ‘cult of domesticity,’ but instead something
grounded in nature itself, and badly in need of recovery. Therefore this Manifesto is not merely
a political document. It is also a philosophical document, a brief but pithy
inquiry into the true sources of human happiness."
“I especially applaud its eagerness to address itself directly to the
plight of young people who have wearied of the weightlessness of sexual
‘liberation’ and the siren songs of consumerism and vocationalism. There are
many such people, and many of them already understand, often through lessons
learned the hard way, that we are not made to be individualistic atoms,
floating free. That they know---but they see no compelling alternatives. This Manifesto offers them a
countervision: that we are made to be conjugal and connected beings, whose
lives are made whole and satisfying not only by the pursuit of our own
pleasures, but by a lifetime of love and self-giving and mutuality and duty, commitments that bind us in the most elemental way to things
larger than ourselves, and bind us to a past, and a future, that we can only
dimly glimpse. It is only within the family’s dense web of duties and obligations
that our achievements can matter, and our freedom be authentic. May this Manifesto
help us recover that insight.”
Another
commentator who fully understands our purpose here is Dr. Albert Mohler,
President of The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, America’s largest
seminary, based in Louisville, Kentucky.
He writes:
“As Carlson and Mero
make clear, the natural family opens the portals to the good life, to true
happiness, even to bliss. In the face
of the family's enemies, who routinely criticize the family as a limiting
institution that represses individuality, Carlson and Mero understand that the
mutuality and generosity of family life, propelled and formalized by mutual
obligation, cements the family together in shared experiences and common goals.”
“As touching and true
as these passages are, this Manifesto is important for the fact that it
identifies the larger social context of family life. Carlson and Mero
understand that the natural family is civilization's most fundamental economic
unit. Beyond this, they also understand that political life also flows out of
natural family homes. More
specifically, a just political life emerges out of the context of the natural
family…. As the authors of this Manifesto are bold to declare: ‘States
exist to protect families and to encourage family growth and integrity.’”
“The Manifesto these authors have
offered in defense of the natural family demands the attention of all those who
would defend civilization's most basic institution. This important document has
emerged at just the right time.”
Other commentaries
include:
From Rabbi Daniel Lapin, President of Toward
Tradition:
“This
family Manifesto is nothing short of a blueprint for Western survival.
The durability of our culture and of its peace and prosperity will never
be seriously jeopardized by outside threats. The only real perils our future
faces are the forces eroding the foundations of marriage and family. The safety
of women, the security of our children, and the sturdiness of our civic
institutions all depend on sculpting the raw rock of masculine aggressiveness
and sexuality into the work of art we call marriage. Prudent people protect it.
The family Manifesto is not only a blueprint for survival, it is a bugle
call.”
From
Dr. Janice Shaw Crouse of Concerned Women for America:
“We have needed an unambiguous statement
about the family that explains: family structure makes a difference; that the
traditional family with a faithful, married mother and a father is essential to
the well-being of women and men, as well as vital to the well-being of
children.”
From
Dr. Ted Baehr, the Editor of Movieguide:
“The Natural Family: A Manifesto is
brilliant—the most important manifesto of the last one hundred years. Every person should read it, especially
those in government and the mass media.
In clear, concise, winsome language, it argues the critical importance
of the role of the family in society and what needs to be done to create a
better world. This Manifesto is
for the United States and the world.”
From Anisa Abdel Fattah:
“The National Association of Muslim
American Women (NAMAW), America’s first and only Muslim organization that is
dedicated to protecting American families, American values, freedom, and a
pro-life agenda, endorses the aims of The Natural Family: A Manifesto.”
And
from Dr. W. Glenn Jamison, Staff Psychiatrist, Clifton Springs Hospital in New
York:
“A healthy family is not simply one among
several options. Traditional family
structure is as organic and normative as a healthy heart or liver or brain, but
on a higher systems level. The family
is an integral human function, reflected in biological and psychological design
at every level. Humans can survive, but
cannot thrive, if basic family structures are manipulated and distorted. Built-in family dynamics will always
struggle to reassert themselves in a pathogenic society….The Manifesto dares to
restate the obvious, in a powerful and affirmative way.”
Finally, I want to share a few
thoughts about the part of the Manifesto labelled, “The Vision.” It is these words that have been adapted
into the proposed Resolution brought forward tonight.
These paragraphs, I underscore,
represent an ideal: not our situation in Rockford, or the world, as it is;
but the situation as it ought to be.
This ideal does build on a central finding of modern social science:
namely, that children predictably do best when they grow up with their
two natural parents in stable, married-couple homes. These children have the highest potential to be healthy, happy,
and well educated and the best prospects for becoming productive, constructive
citizens. Any variation away from this
model—any—results in a higher likelihood of negative outcomes for the children.
All the same, no society can ever
fully achieve this goal. Tragedies
alone, such as the premature death of a young parent, mean that the ideal
will always be tempered by the reality.
This means that public servants will have to craft certain policies to
deal with those circumstances that fall short of the Vision. However, they must always keep their
minds focused on the ideal, on the Vision, as the goal for public
policy. They must ensure that all
laws and public acts reflect and encourage, or at least do not damage, the
Vision of a world restored, one resting on the natural family.
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