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It has been a great treat for Betsy and me, and our youngest
daughter Miriam, to be with you these two days.
Such gatherings are a wonderful way to confirm the community of
home schooling, that extends across this state, and this nation.
Thank you for your hospitality.
My subject this afternoon is "The Perils (and Rewards) of
Being a 'Pioneer" Family," a theme that seems appropriate in
this, the "Last Frontier" state, where "pioneering" is
something more than a memory.
But I ask you now to cast your minds in another way.
Picture a country where leading educators look upon parents as bad
influences; a country where those same educators wish to take children
away from home as early as possible.
Picture a country where schools no longer serve the home or the
local community; instead, they serve the government and the abstract
international economy.
Picture a country where some parents view their children as an
encumbrance at home, where there is no useful work for them to do, and
where these parents are glad enough to turn them over to the state.
Indeed, I suggest that you picture the United States of America in
the 1990's.
Such is the current dominant relationship of schooling to the
family and the society, as described by the Kentucky farmer and poet
Wendell Berry. As he writes
in his book, What
Are People For?:
According to the new norm, the child's destiny is not to succeed
the parents, but to outmode them....The schools are no longer oriented to
a cultural inheritance that it is their duty to pass on unimpaired, but to
the career, which is to say the future of the child....[H]e or she is
educated to leave home....School systems innovate as compulsively
and as eagerly as factories. It is no wonder that, under these circumstances, 'educators'
tend to look upon parents as bad influences and wish to take the children
away from home as early as possible.
And many parents, in truth, are now finding their children an
encumbrance at home, where there is no useful work for them to do, and are
glad enough to turn them over to the state for the use of the future.
He concludes: The
local schools no longer serve the local community; they serve the
government's economy and the economy's government.
Berry's observations are generally true, yet at the same time
incomplete. There are those,
here in this room and elsewhere around the country, who seek to reassert
the traditional role of families in education.
Simply put, we are in the midst of a kind of revolution in which
hundreds of thousands of American parents are choosing not to educate
their children to leave home, but to educate them at home.
And for reasons that I will explain, such parents face special
dangers.
The home-schooling movement has grown spectacularly in a short
period of time. In 1970, home
education was found among a scattered few, some tied to the so-called
"counter culture," or among special cases such as American
families living overseas, probably not more than 20,000 overall.
Yet by 1998, somewhere near two million children in the 50 states
studied primarily at home.
Academically, these children tend to outperform their public-school
peers. But home schooling is
about more than academic achievement.
It is about restoring much of what America once was--a nation that
nurtured both freedom and virtue.
So what brought on this home-education revolution?
Where will it take us? And
why do home educators face so many dangers?
To best answer these questions, we must first understand where
we've been.
Before 1840, the vast majority of Americans (more than 90 percent)
lived on farms or in small villages; theirs was the life of the cottage.
While many adults had a specialized trade, most households aimed
at--and commonly achieved--self-sufficiency in food, clothing and other
essentials.
For example, families commonly preserved their own meat and
vegetables and prepared their own meals.
They spun and wove their own cloth; they sewed their own clothing.
They made the chairs they sat in, the candles that gave them light,
and they either walked or rode their own horses and drove their own
wagons.
As one historian has phrased it, these Americans raised and
educated their children to succeed them, not just to succeed.
By age 5, children were active participants in the work of the
household, as were elderly or unmarried kin.
Husbands and wives, too, were bound together in a partnership of
home-centered work; they specialized in tasks, to be sure, but each needed
the other to create the self-sufficient home, which they believed to be
essential to their dignity and their liberty.
Divorce was out of the question.
Children were everywhere, with the average family counting seven.
Family loyalties rested not only on love and emotional
companionship but also on need: Wife
and husband, child and parent were functionally intertwined.
These household economies operated on the principle of altruism, or
sharing.
This American world began to change about 1840, as the emerging
industrialists lured vast multitudes into newly-built factories.
But newfound industrial efficiency and lower-cost, standardized
products came at the expense of small, family-held enterprises--and
ultimately of home life itself.
Although families could now buy an array of cheaper consumer goods,
a less visible price that they paid was the surrender of productive family
functions (candle-making, food processing, weaving) to the industrial
sphere. Moreover, they also
had to surrender something more precious--their time together.
In this new order, people now worked in one place and slept in
another
--a
revolutionary shift in human living patterns.
With mothers and fathers pulled out of the cottage, the care and
training of children became a matter for the larger society--again,
something new in human affairs.
Over the next 100 years, the modern social-welfare state took
shape, claiming nurturing functions that throughout history belonged to
the family. The first and
most important of these was education.
Also beginning in the 1840's, the common-school movement--backed by
compulsory education laws--took children out of the home for moral and
practical training. From this
seed the modern public-education system would grow.
Established in Massachusetts, the movement in its early years aimed
at indoctrinating immigrant Catholic children into the liberal
Unitarianism of the Boston elite. After the Civil War, the New England system was imposed on
the defeated South as a tool of political reconstruction. By 1900, the movement adopted the sentimental, atheistic
socialism of John Dewey and his colleagues.
Whatever changed, the consistent goal was state control of
children. As one
turn-of-the-century school inspector explained, "The schools exist
for the benefit of the state rather than for the benefit of the
individual. The state seeks to make every citizen intelligent and
serviceable."
In his influential SOCIAL
HISTORY OF THE AMERICAN FAMILY (1917), Arthur Calhoun celebrated
the "disappearance" of family-centered childrearing and
"the substitution of the parentalism of society." Children, Calhoun reported with satisfaction, had passed
"into the care of community experts who are qualified to perform the
complexer (sic) functions of parenthood...which the [natural] parents have
neither the time nor knowledge to perform."
This aggressive social-welfare state went on to capture other
family functions. For
example, the years near 1840 marked the advent of the legal concept of
parens patriae--"the parenthood of the state."
Children could be seized and incarcerated over the protests of
families when natural parents were deemed (as a Pennsylvania court put it)
"unequal to the task of education or unworthy of it."
In short, the message given to parents was:
leave education and child guidance to the professionals.
Government expansion weakened family ties in other ways as well.
Until modern times, grown children and other relatives provided
security and support to the elder members of their families.
Adults had an obligation
--moral,
social and legal--to care for their own.
Moreover, they also knew their own security might depend someday on
the children they had reared and on the example they set in caring for
their own parents.
State-level pension programs, the national Social Security system
and health insurance shattered those security bonds.
The incentives toward childbearing actually reversed.
The new, ruthlessly correct logic became
"children are time consuming, expensive, and noisy.
Let others raise the children who will support me in my old
age."
During the years 1840-1940, divorces--virtually unknown at the
beginning of this period--increased dramatically.
The average age of first marriage for both men and women rose, and
the birth rate steadily declined, from an average of seven children per
family to about two by the early 1930's.
"The large family is an economically handicapped family,"
mourned the family advocate Ralph Borsodi in his 1929 book, THIS UGLY
CIVILIZATION. "The family today tends to restrict the number of its
children; to shift the responsibility for caring for its aged relatives to
public institutions; to drive even the wife and mother out of the home
into money-making and to place its infirm and crippled members in
hospitals of various kinds."
This probably sounds familiar to most of you.
But there was a time, just a few decades ago, when the family made
a comeback of sorts.
That time occurred roughly from 1940 to 1965.
The average age of first marriage fell to historic lows (20 for
women, 22 for men), the proportion of adults who were married soared to
the highest level ever recorded, the divorce rate dropped 50 percent after
World War II and the birth rate grew 60 percent, with average family size
shooting from about two children in 1940 to nearly four children in 1957.
There were several reasons for this reversal of trends.
Among them:
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An informal but prevailing "family wage" large enough
for men to support a household and for many married women to raise
children at home rather than toil in a factory.
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Pro-family tax policies including a large per-person tax
exemption, special tax breaks for home ownership, and "income
splitting," which provided incentives for marriage and increased the
financial burdens for divorce.
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The revival of family-centered religion combined with an
increase in fertility, especially among Roman Catholics.
In 1958--well after the "catching up" on babies deferred
during World War II had ended--22 percent of Catholic adults under age 40
had four or more children. This
was more than double the rate in 1953.
(Among Protestants, the rate held steady at 9 percent).
All in all it seemed to be a momentous turnaround.
But it was not to last.
Statistics from 1965-1980 tell a far different tale.
The marriage rate for women ages 20-24 fell 55 percent; the divorce
rate soared by 125 percent; the birth rate tumbled 46 percent.
What happened? Again,
several things. The most
obvious was the collapse of the social forces that had nourished family
renewal just a quarter century earlier.
World War II-era America, and the patriotic and conformist
attitudes which sustained it, became a casualty on the rice paddies of
Vietnam.
More importantly, however, the church failed in its
family-sustaining tasks. Sermons
on chastity and fidelity disappeared from many Protestant pulpits.
So-called "mainline" churches even went on the attack.
A National Council of Churches panel in 1961 labeled marriage an
"idolatry" and endorsed the sexual modernist agenda:
opposition to population growth, access to abortion and promotion
of contraception.
Catholics, too, grew disoriented in the wake of the Vatican II
conference of the mid-1960's. Divisions
on family and sexual issues were widely publicized, and absent a unified
voice from church leaders, much of the laity threw in with the modernists
whose voices increasingly dominated the wider culture.
Government action accelerated the trend in numerous ways.
Between 1963 and 1981, the Congress abandoned all pro-family tax
measures, including income splitting and a large per-capita tax exemption. The Federal government also created a welfare system that
subsidized out-of-wedlock childbearing, put legal pressures on American
industry to employ more women and break down the informal family wage
system, and--certainly not least--issued a string of destructive court
decisions.
In the courts, as well as among intellectuals and the media, the
"rights" of individuals triumphed almost completely over duties
toward family and community. The
old concept of liberty based on responsibility was replaced by
"no-fault divorce," "children's rights" and "the
right to privacy"--meaning, most often, abortion on demand.
Beyond all this lies evidence of deeper causes that predated the
1960's.
The so-called sexual revolution, for example, actually began
decades earlier. The World
War II mobilization of 28 million men and women for war and factory work
shook traditional restraints on courting and sexual behavior.
Alfred Kinsey's 1948 book, SEXUAL BEHAVIOR IN THE HUMAN MALE,
raised pornography to the level of popular science.
PLAYBOY magazine debuted in 1953 and movies grew more explicit.
Although most families appeared healthy, rates of illegitimacy and
sexually transmitted diseases climbed at an alarming pace.
An even greater problem was the failure of postwar family renewal
to return functions or tasks to the household in any meaningful way.
Driving the new medium of television, advertising whetted ever more
appetites for consumer goods, and by its very nature discouraged all forms
of family self-sufficiency, such as gardening or sewing or home carpentry.
Most remaining small farms collapsed in these years, pouring a last
great stream of country refugees into the cities and factories.
Thus unleashed sexuality and rampant consumerism, rather than the
authentic family and the household economy, were the true winners of the
1950's. When fresh challenges
to the family arose in the next decade--from feminists, atheists, members
of the New Left and others--the "traditional family" of the
1950's simply vanished, as smoke in a gust of wind.
Yet the story does not end here.
Despite the corruptions of greed and lust--the death that is the
wages of sin--the desire to create and live in families cannot ever be
extinguished. The urge is
planted in our genetic inheritance, in our hormones and in our souls.
Humans can try to deny this aspect of their nature, but the desire
still returns in some way to each generation, opening again the
possibility for renewal.
And so, in the 1970's, specific events--including federal efforts
to regulate public and parochial education, Supreme Court decisions
blessing the sexual revolution, and the breakdown of discipline and
standards in local schools, inspired a critical mass of pioneers to bring
their children home.
They soon discovered that, indeed, there's no place like home for
the education of their children. These
pioneer families also found that the nature of their relationships
changed, almost overnight, a theme I described in my talk last night.
Father, mother, and children had become members of a learning
enterprise who needed each other and who profited--morally and
practically--from each other.
A key productive function lost to the family over a century
ago--education--had come home, and the results were at once remarkable and
predictable. Many of these
families found ways to bring other functions home as well--gardening, food
preservation or a family business--and they tasted an independence unknown
to several American generations.
Home educators created a demand for appropriate books, curricula
and software; new, family-held "cottage businesses" blossomed.
Families shared with friends and neighbors the fruits of their
newfound independence. Home
schooling communities emerged locally, on a state-wide basis, and
nationally.
Viewed through the lens of history, home schooling is the most
promising effort at reconstructing the institution of the family in
America in the past 150 years. The family, uprooted and ravaged by factory and state, has
found its path back to the symbolic cottage--its true home.
At the same time, home schooling faces some real dangers.
This should come as no surprise:
In seeking true liberty and autonomy, home-schooling families pose
a basic threat to the powers that be.
When parents bring their children home, not only do school
districts lose money; the gross national product also goes down, as
schooling passes into the uncounted realm of home production.
This joint threat explains the legal obstacles and criticisms that
home education faces in every state, and now from the federal government
as well.
So, watch out for the ambush!
As the number of home-schooled children climbs, these hurdles and
challenges and dangers, will only grow.
Some will be direct challenges, perhaps by welfare or "child
protection" authorities, who can be expected to go after the most
vulnerable home schooling families. Or the threat might be indirect including incentives and
lures to pull you back into the state system.
These realities illustrate the vital need for organizations such as
the Home School Legal Defense Association, the National Center for Home
Education, and The Alaska Private and Home Educators Association, which
provide the legal, political and educational shelters under which home
education might survive during this critical phase of its growth.
But if home schooling can weather this storm, it could spark a
cultural revolution aimed at recovering not only learning standards, but
also family integrity and sustainable community.
Residing again the family cottage, we can relearn certain
philosophical truths. Two
hundred years ago, Adam Smith, the philosopher of liberty, wrote:
"Domestic [or home] education is the institution of
nature--public education is the contrivance of man.
It is surely unnecessary to say which is likely to be the
wisest."
What Smith calls the institution of nature is, of course, the
institution of God.
Or as the great American sociologist, Robert
Nisbet, once wrote:
We can use the family as an almost infallible touchstone of the
material and cultural prosperity of a people.
When it is strong, closely linked with private property, treated
as the essential context of education in society, and its sanctity
recognized by law and custom, the probability is extremely high that we
shall find the rest of the social order characterized by that subtle but
[powerful] fusion of stability and individual mobility which is the
hallmark of great ages....It is inconceivable to me that either
intellectual growth or social order or the roots of liberty can possibly
be maintained among a people unless the kinship tie is strong and [the
family] has both functional significance and symbolic authority.
As pioneers in the rebuilding of the functional family, you are
also rebuiliding a civilization where liberty and progress might advance,
as well. You are important to
this nation...and indeed, to this civilization.
Go in God's peace, and serve the Lord.
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